From the
moment you meet someone for the first time, you quickly want to assess who the
person is and what they represent. This is why you may be on the lookout for
certain stable qualities like honesty, kindness and intelligence.
Paying
attention to these things may even help you evaluate if you will want to pursue
an intimate relationship with this person or not.
Such
judgment of character could be helpful on major decisions such as pursuing a
romantic relationship, employing an individual or accepting a job offer. Based
on these things, this is how people judge your personality and determine who
you are and who you might not be.
1.
Your handwriting
Most people,
if asked, would probably say that they love themselves. But when you start to
look at how they treat themselves, a different answer begins to emerge. It’s
easy to get caught up in the pressure to look, be and act a certain way; so
easy in fact that we may act more lovingly towards others than we do to
ourselves. I’m talking about societal, religious, family or peer group
beliefs or pressure to behave a certain way, do a certain job or make yourself
believe you should “be” in the world that might not align with who you really
are.
The more
time you spend trying to conform to everyone else’s expectations, the more lost
and less loving towards yourself you may become.
Here are 7
things you won’t do if you really love yourself – how do you stack up?
1.
You won’t over commit.
When talking
about success, people are more focused on strategy, character, and hard work.
But they fail to realize that success is absolute, and even smaller details
cannot be ignored. To be successful, you have to build a total perspective and
outlook on it. Successful people rely on these seldom mentioned qualities
as well to step ahead of their rivals.
1.
Intuition
Often,
successful people say that they followed a gut feeling when they pursued a
venture. Truthfully, the facts alone are not sufficient. Sometimes, you
have to rely on a sixth sense that will direct you on the course to take. Your
intuition offers you an insight into whether or not you are right to make
a decision.
We
all want to be successful, yet many of us focus on the prize of reaching the
‘success finish line’, rather than on the race itself. We consider success a
destination and blind ourselves to the fact that success is more of a
structure, a system, and a practice. Check out the many successful people in
our society who stick to a stringent set of practices daily to be at the top. They do not
limit their ideology to the notion that success is an endgame. No. Rather they
see it as something that requires consistency and ongoing effort. And here is
why:
“Success
is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out” – Robert Collier
Read
on to find out why success shouldn’t be your main focus in life:
You won’t be happy
